Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Thinking outside the box

Since we have moved to Florida I have heard from several of you, that you maybe have had that same ‘inkling’ of God calling you out. Maybe you are not certain of the game-plan, but just prayerfully watching and waiting for God to reveal it to you. Ready to do the ‘next thing’ in whatever His plans are for you! I just wanted to take the time to share with you that this is a very exciting thing and I am glad some of you have taken the time to share this awesome blessing with us so we can be praying for you. If you are not getting this inkling quite yet, I hope that by my writing this you would be stirred to consider a small challenge. I want to encourage you that, you can do this in your own Jerusalem, wherever that may be at the moment! Being taught under Steve in CCTC, has equipped us ALL so very well that you can only get so ‘well fed’, before needing to act upon it and bless others. I shared in one of my original journals/blog from last year……….. when we first felt God tugging and He was going to move us, out biggest problem there in Tri-cities was contentment & complacency…….. Simply put, that amongst the awesome BOLD teaching, wonderful accountability & great fellowship that we experienced in TC, we got very comfortable in where God was using us. We were ‘giving out’ and serving but not beyond areas that were, honestly, out of our comfort zones. It was easy to do as we have always done, simply because we lacked the ability to think ‘outside of the box’ in many ways. We had niches where God was using us because these were the areas we ‘allowed Him’ to use us. Beyond this, was too far fetched and shamefully absent. To be honest, we put God in a box by allowing our comfort to me more important than the possibilities of what He could have done with us.In the loneliness of being ‘sequestered’ from everything I knew from TC, many of which were awesome, edifying and wonderful things, it is amazing how much God has revealed to me to begin thinking outside my comfort zone……… When it is no longer convenient to consult with a GODLY friend and down play how God would never tell me to do ________ because it would interfere with _________ or use the excuse that I am just not equipped to do__________. Well, then it is just between God and you. There are things God is calling me to do here, that I would have never even considered doing in TC. I had my ‘things’, my schedules were pretty set, the goals were very clear and there really was ‘no time’ for thinking outside the box back home. God forbid if I had begun prayerfully considered thinking this way and I am sure something shiney could have come alongside and distracted me since it is always Satans plan to keep us from having a true impact in the lives of others. When there is no one to argue with, but the Lord, and we 'get out of ourselves' long enough to find out where God wants us, that is the point where God can do show us what he can do with a lump of dirt. YOU TOO can experience the same thing we have experienced, without the need to move at all. Ask the Lord to reveal to you, if you are even open to thinking outside of your comfort zone. Sequester yourself from whatever talks you out of doing what is not comfortable or logical. Ask the Lord what distracts you from thinking outside of your comfort zone? I pray that some of you do get sent out of ‘the nest’ and go on to do some pretty awesome things with God’s leading. However, to those of you who are not being called out I challenge you to also be prayerful in the same manner. Until God sends you elsewhere don’t make the same mistake I made. Think outside the box and make an impact there in your Jerusalem while you still can! Evaluate your time spent? Are you spending time on what is eternally valuable? Are you investing in more than the everyday mundane or asking God to help you invest in the eternally valuable, beyond what you could ordinarily imagine? GOD BLESS ALL!

Saturday, January 24, 2009

God is good.....

How many of you are aware that God really does have a sense of humor? Well, those of you who know 'how I tick' will have a good chuckle at this one. I have explained, in general terms, a little bit about how the cultural norms of the east coast differ from those of the west coast. Let me explain one of these cultural norms to you that has been a but difficult to get used to.

WHen I first met John's folks a week before we were to wed I found it odd that when they greeted me it was with a full on hug and a slight kiss in the cheek. I found it a little uncomfortable, but because we were about to be family, I thought that maybe they were just really excited for their son and were embracing me into the family????? After all, his brother did not embrace me with this same enthusiasm. After living on this coastline for over half a year now, I have learned that this kind of greeting is a cultural norm. It really doesn't matter if you are meeting someone for the first time or not either, the initial greeting is the same. Big hug and slight kiss on the cheek. Am I crazy or is this weird? Many of you know how much of a 'touchy~feely' person I am so, I guess you could say this was an area of uncomfort that God wants me to 'grow into'? For the most part I really just try not to tense up and show my discomfort with this quite intimate level of "hi how are ya doing". In my initail attempts to cope with people wanting to touch and kiss me as a greeting I would instead try to 'cut them off at the pass' by extending out my hand as if to shake hands. However, some very sweet 'touchy~feely folks' just used that guesture not as a "respect the imaginary space bubble", but now have used my hand shake to 'pull me in' and hug me even closer. In my effort to compensate for my lack of wanting to be touched I have learned that not accepting this greeting can be insulting as well. This means I have no other choice BUT to 'get over it'.

Seriously though..................At many times along this, so far, pretty short season here to where we are, I'll be the first person to admit that I have questioned the title of this blog (God is good). While in my head I know undoubtably, that is so true, the 'rubber meets the road' when that head knowledge has been put to the test. I can now see where, in my many times of doubt I have failed to show the truth in this statement. As I admit this, I can sincerely say that I sit back and am AWE of the audacity of this kind of doubt. A realization of a lack of growth in this area is undoubtably disappointing....... I am in AWE that my God still loves me despite how futile my faith can be when circumstances are trying. In every step of the journey, God has truely been faithful. It is not what I know to be true that has changed however it is more of what my expectations were as a result of this move has not been as monumental as I had hoped. In reflecting upon this fact........ I have determined in this journey, to no longer get caught up or 'lost' in the mundane schedule of everyday life. Since there has been no distractions here in Florida, all we have been doing is finding a sence of normalcy in our routine. A rather mundane routine that consists of school & church and an occasional outing to explore the area. Without the common bonds of having kids around my children's ages and other couples around our general age it is rather lonely. So it is easier to get caught up in normalcy than to admit how hard this new 'normal', is.

I remember the end of last February, when we first knew the prompting of the Lord and how we were make some sort of sence out of this upcoming journey. Being that it is coming up on this time of year again it brings me to a level of reflection of what God had in store for us. During this short time we all spent a lot of time praying for answers & clear direction. God was ever so faithful to answer these prayers as we earnestly set forth to lay aside our worries and remember that His plan was so much better than any that we could accomplish on our own. I suppose after arriving here I figured my "role" in this journey would automatically become clear. I was praying about how to serve at church but wasn't reaching too far outside my comfort zone. I guess I figured His will for reaching the folks in the area that we were suppose to meet, would just fall conveniently into our laps. I hadn't spent much time praying for it to 'fall', just waiting. Well, God spanked me! He reminded me of that, once held devotion of last February. An undivided effort to seeking Him, asking for answers/confirmation and direction for His unfolding plan. Needless to say, even in the spankings God is good and He is faithful to not let me get too content with my mundane life. If you could be praying, I am looking into investing some time getting plugged into our community by volunteering on John's days off. This would mean that John would school the kids while I am out which he had agreed to do! The Lord has been tugging at my heart in one specific area, but because it would be rather stressful place to get involved, John is very reluctant. Please pray I will hear where God wants me to go and that we will both have peace about it. Love and miss you all!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Some funny T~shirts

Just thought I would share some funny shirts that John's work likes to print out! They are rather funny to police officers but not all could appreciate this demented sort of humor as we do! BTW on each of these shirts it says pretty clearly LEE COUNTY GUN RANGE which is why most of them have targets on them.




Once John gets his own gun, not department issue, I can practice at the range and wear one of these shirts! He He!
John has one shirt from Benton county that is now mine because he ordered it too small. Last time I wore it to church one of the older gentleman there told me "I have never seen a family so bold to ADVERTISE the establishment of a jail". Of course I have never really thought twice about it...... I am glad John's other shirts from the other facilities he has worked are either too small or too worn out to wear.
Anywho, if there is anyone who wants one of these John gets a discount so let me know if you want us to send you one. These ones are being sent home to my father, brother and Sharon (John's former boss). Anyone else? HUGS!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Learning opportunities & blessings this holiday season

Praise! This year, for Christmas I thought it would be much harder than it really was. I was actually dreading this season because friends and family are what seem to give more of a distinct meaning to these special dates that lie on the calendar. These ‘stationary figures’ trigger our desires to celebrate in certain ways that are familiar and become family traditions. Although we know somewhere in the back of our minds that these figures have nothing to do with the real meaning of Jesus’s birth, rarely do we have the opportunity to ‘prove’ that we understand it. Since I knew that these stationary figures in my life were no longer there to keep the ‘spirit of the Holiday’ the same as usual, this was hard to accept. This meant that my comfortable, stationary role, all planned out within this holiday chaos was about to become an unknown without any kind of familiarity. GREAT, many of you know how much I love to embrace change! UGH! This is probably why I get so many opportunities for a ‘do-over’? Try once AGAIN to embrace some sort of change, with a heart that is no longer bent on what I am used to. Re-occurring theme in my life! Instead of dread, I had to ask the Lord to change my focus so that I could embrace change with the attitude that these are new opportunities and exciting things that God wants for me and my family.
I guess you could say this year was different in the fact that I realized something pretty simple, but imperative. We had the opportunity to change head knowledge into heart application, due to our circumstances. Sometimes, due to all the hub-bub of familiarities and chaos during Christmas, the simplicity of gratefulness and celebration of our saviors birth can easily be lost. The obligations of family pictures, gatherings of friends and family, school plays, work parties, ect. can take the simplicity of the celebration and turn it into an overblown production of obligations. All Jesus cares about is the simplicity of a relationship with Him and remembering to celebration the gift of His son to us. With or without familiarities, Jesus’s birth is still the real meaning behind this date! Christmas is not about traditions or everybody in the family being present and accounted for, but a deeper reverence for what the Lord has done for us and our desire to grow closer to Him everyday. In being so out of my element this year, I also realized that I had to ask the Lord to make me “feel like” celebrating Christmas because there was such a huge temptation to let the Grinch take over! Since I wasn’t able to cling to traditions and familiarities, I instead had the opportunity to cling to the Lord instead. Can we all say DUH? As usual, God is faithful to meet us where we are at and then bless our socks off when we stop concentrating on what we do not have and shift our focus on the true blessing of having Him in our lives.

The weekend before Christmas, John took some time off & Sarah offered to babysit the kiddos while we did our Christmas shopping. SO the kids had a fun day of playing with their big sister and we got all of the items on our shopping list taken care of.
Christmas day, John was working, but we were invited over to Chris & Donna’s house (pastor and his wife) for Christmas dinner. John did join us once he got off. We all had a nice time of fellowship, spending the day with friends and eating Christmas dinner with our church family. Unfortunately, due to our fun time of spending Christmas away from home, we missed out on family phone calls but because of the time difference we still got the opportunity to chat a small amount.
On the 26th, the kids woke us up at around 7am to celebrate Christmas. Tons of fun and grateful kiddos were so excited to see what was hiding under that tree. After inspecting their new toys and fun stuff we hooked up the newest family toy. The Wii. There were quite a few hours of play before getting ready for the family function later that afternoon. We were ever so fortunate to be invited to a holiday dinner at Sarah & Matt’s house in Naples. I guess it is a family tradition that both sides of their family’s come together for a combined dinner the day after Christmas at their home. We were privileged to get to be apart of this gathering and meet all the members of their families. (On Matt’s side: his parents, grandma, sister & friend of the family Lisa were there and on Sarah’s side: her parents, Aunt Julie and brother Jared were there). We were a bit nervous about being ‘the odd man out’ in the mix of both families; however, we were made to feel very welcomed and were warmly received by all. Even though our kids were the only ones there, they also seemed to have a lot of fun chatting with all the adults and pretty much talking everyone’s ears off who would listen. The kids were also terribly spoiled rotten by their sister & her parents. I was shocked that Sarah’s parents seemed pretty excited at the chance to Christmas shop for our kids and see their eyes light as they played with their new & unexpected gifts. After I got Ben’s Batman toys out of their package, John & Sarah’s brother, Jared couldn’t get outside fast enough to play with Ben and show him how his new toys worked. It was quite funny watching those big boys play with the toys and revert back to childhood! It was quite nice to feel as if God had taken the huge gap that was filled by our family & friends from back home and replaced it with HIS designed plan for us. God is very good! There were also a lot of pictures taken at Sarah’s, so once I get some sent to me I will post them for you all to see! Hope you all had a nice Christmas full of blessings and family memories!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Some holiday pictures.......


We visited a place called Sanibel Island today. We had heard it was a beautiful island with a $6 toll fee to get over the bridge. It really is quite a lovely place but much too rich for our blood. Still made some nice pictures though. Here is the litehouse all spiffied up for Christmas. John thinks they need a Calvary Chapel on that Island but this is the island that gets evacuated when the hurricanes come our way...... I enjoy being safe more inland and visiting the pretty places?























Here are the kiddos on some driftwood!
























Close-up!























Here they are with daddy!





















Tried to make sand castles but with playing in the water as well and finding treasures like shells, sea urchins and sea sponges....... too many exciting things to do besides building a castle. A lot of digging and moving sand around though....












It's so bright it makes it hard to look at the camera with your eyes open!











Here is our neighbors dog. The neighbor is a single guy who works a lot of hours during the day in landscaping. Since his dog is very well trained, we asked if he could come over and play with the kids & our dog, instead of him being locked in a crate all day! I think it is a good situation for both of us since he gets to be around people who will give him lots of love and we get to have another dog that goes home at night! His name is picket........ I think the guy gave him that name due to the white stripe in between his eyes looks like a fence picket? IDK? He is a sweet doggie!
Merry Christmas all!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Long time no hear.....

I know I haven't been very good about keeping you all updated on what is going on but there really isn't much I can tell. We have been struggling with some things having to do with what our purpose is here, but God is always faithful to continue to encourage us and give us glimpses of the possibilities and purposes of His plan for our church family and this area as a whole. The solution to all of that was to keep our focus on the Lord rather than our limited circumstances. John has started a weekly Men's prayer group on Thursdays evenings at the church. This was rather neat to give the men that desire to reach out, an opportunity to have an accountability group, fellowship and encourage each other.

I hear you Tri-Citians got snow........ apart of me is jelous but apart of me is not so much! The kids saw that New Orleans got snow and got all excited that it might make it down where we are but unfortunately we are too far down in the tropics for that possibility? With the weird weather though I am sure anything is possible even if it isn't likely...... It would definately answer one Christmas wish even if it would be catastophic for native Floridians who know nothing about driving in the stuff. That would be a day to stay home and off the roads!

Thanksgiving was a bit hard being so far away from family but it was really no different than every other year in some ways. John spend the day of Thanksgiving working so we celebrated on Friday instead. Sarah was going to come over but was informed by her employer earlier in the week that she was expected to work on Black Friday. We still had people from church join us though and they were a hoot to visit with and share this holiday with!

Some neat things that have happened lately at church. We have had some new couples come and join us. One couple moved recently from NY and were apart of Bill Galitins church when it was very small and watched it grow. Her health was one of the main reasons they moved to a warmer climate but it is exciting to hear them talk about the fact that God moved them here to US! It is nice to have some Vetran Calvary-ites who really seem to have a mature faith along with a heart to serve.
This last week we had a YOUNG (late 20s I would guess) couple visit us at church. They had 3 children and their oldest was a boy and Ben's age. (We have been praying for little boys Ben's age since our church doesn't have any) They live in the Port Charlotte/Englewood area which is about 30-45 minutes North of us. I guess they are California natives who were also called to the area just North of us to begin a Calvary. He was a Youth pastor at his church in Ca but then, like us began to see the Lord leading them elsewhere. They were visiting us since we were the nearest Calvary to them. It was very neat to hear their story and get the fellowship from folks closer to MY age....... Not sure if they are going to keep coming for a while or continue to try and offer a fellowship for those in their area up north. I, selfishly, pray that they get to stay with us and maybe do a homefellowship thing during the week for those in their area!!!!

John is finding his job a little more challenging than he thought it would be. He was really hoping for a housing unit where he could build relationships and get to know the inmates and therefore get opportunities to witness more often. Instead he is at a post where he shares with another officer. They spend half the shift with the mentally insane and half the post with 'normal but high risk' criminals. The high risk criminals is the 'good' part of the day whereas dealing with those that are not all there is not really very easy. Most of them are either yelling at you or screaming at the top of their lungs because of the fact that they are in jail and might not exactly know why. You can't really get them to stop either through means that get normal inmates to stop their antics since it is really a mental health issue. So all you can really do is hope you can tune it out and WISH your time would go by faster. There have been a couple times John has entertained asking to be transferred out of this assignment but apparently God hasn't given him the go-ahead to do so yet. Although there haven't been many witnessing opportunities at his assignment there, God has put other people in our separate paths to witness to and show them Jesus.

The kids have gotten plugged in to a drama club from the homeschool group we joined. I figured a smaller group might more easily allow them to form connections and make them feel more comfortable if or when we attend bigger events. The kids will be singing at some old folks homes for Christmas and spreading some much needed Christmas cheer! To sum up some other stuff......

Things I miss about home:

~Knowing the difference between really cold verses needing to wear pants if the temperature stays in the high 60s. SO SAD how fast your blood thins out here!

~Snow and my first thought at the first sight of snow is to call Kristy Good and ask her if she is watching it sipping moondust tea!

~Watching the kiddos play in the fresh snow!

~SLOW news days where there is no mention of child abuse or homicide. Here it is pretty common to have both in the news daily.

~Gardening according to seasons.

~Spending time with family during the holidays.

~Sending my leftover food to my neighbors or family.

~Being oblivious to the economic devastation going on in the rest of the country while the Tri-cities was insulated from much of it.

~Living around 'real people' rather than abandon/forclosed homes.

~Having a dozen people I could call and get together with for coffee or a playdate or BOTH.

~Having many excuses to get out of doing school and being a bad example for others not wanting to take a day off until I gave them something more fun to do!

~Not having my mom shop for me when I need something somewhat stylish to wear. SAD I KNOW!

~Smelling Christmas in the chill of the air and the weather getting us in the 'feel' of Christmas coming. It is weird putting up a tree when it feels a little more like spring.....


Things I don't miss about home:

~If we had stayed we would not be in the center of God's will and would be reaping the consequences of that. Don't even want to imagine what that spanking would be like. OUCH!

~The stress that came with the on-going saga of Politics at John's old job...... As The County Turns! Sorry for those of you still dealing with this!

~Being used in the lives of people who have hit rock bottom and due to their economic situation are totally open to the gospel. Hard to see but at least we get to offer the only Hope that only God can give regardless of situation.

~Being in shorts & T-shirts right now, spending time at the beach in and the kids getting to play outside ALL in the middle of winter.

~Watching the kids get to know their sister. Watching she and John interact with that same sense of humor and sarcasm. I am out of my league there so all I can do is watch!!

SO, this is what is going on here in our world! Hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and PLEASE remember to pray for all those that are hurting this Holiday season.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Neat Ideas for Christmas trees

These we a couple neat Christmas tree ideas to get kids to understand tie in some neat analogies for Christmas! ENJOY!

The Jesse Tree
Excerpted from 'Advent and Lent Activities for Children' with permission of Twenty-Third Publications. BY: Sheila Kielly and Sheila GeraghtyOrigin: The Jesse tree represents Jesus' family tree. The name is taken from Isaiah 11:1, in which Jesus is referred to as a shoot coming up from the stump of Jesse, the father of David. The ornaments on the Jesse tree tell of Jesus' ancestors, and of the events leading to Jesus' birth.
Symbols:
Adam and Eve ~ Apple (Genesis 2:4-3:24)
Noah ~ Ark or rainbow (Genesis 6:11-22, 7:17-8:12, 20-9:17)
Abraham ~ Knife (Genesis 12:1-7, 15:1-6)
Isaac ~ Ram (Genesis 22:1-19)
Jacob ~ Ladder (Genesis 27:41-28:22)
Joseph ~ Colorful coat (Genesis 37, 39:1-50:21)
Moses ~ Tablets of the law (Exodus 2:1-4:20)
David ~ Harp (1 Samuel 16:17-23)
Isaiah ~ Lion and lamb (Isaiah 1:10-20, 6:1-13, 8:11-9:7)
Mary ~ Lily (Luke 1:26-38)
Elizabeth ~ Small home (Luke 1:39-55)
Joseph ~ Hammer or saw (Matthew 1:18-25)

Connection: Roots are important parts of a tree. As people, we need to know our roots, as well. Often, we run from one thing to another without reflecting on where we've been or where we are going. As we create a Jesse tree during this Advent season, let us pause and look at our lives to see on whose shoulders we stand.
Activity: Make a Jesse tree for your home. First, take a large, bare branch and secure it in a pot of sand or rocks. (You can also use a large potted plant or evergreen.) Create ornaments that trace Jesus' royal line by making symbols for some of the people found in the Hebrew testament. Make the ornaments out of cardboard or construction paper and decorate as you like. Instead of hanging all the ornaments on the tree at one time, you may want to hang one on every other day of Advent. Read the Scripture citation given here as you hang each ornament on the tree.
Here is a link to see one that is done up: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/7202/advent.html

Here is another neat idea for those of you with little kids or for those that are looking for neat ideas to get the kiddos thinking; saw this on another blog so I figured I would pass along her neat ideas!:
We decorate our tree with deliberately chosen ornaments, each one is one of the following shapes or images, all symbolizing the Gospel Message. We have a "tree trimming party" with family and friends Thanksgiving Weekend and put up the tree. As we decorate, we read the scriptures for each ornament to help us remember God's love for us!
Our Christmas Tree Ornaments… what they mean to us:
ANGELS: God's messengers were the first to announce the birth of the Christ child.
Luke 1: 26-38,
BELLS: Bells ring to call people to worship. Psalm 100,
CANDLES AND LIGHTS: Our home glows with light during this time of the year to remind us that Jesus came as the Light of the World.Matthew 5:14-16, John 8:12,
CHRISTMAS TREE: Symbolizes that our God is eternal and we have eternal life through His Son when we put our trust in Him. 2 Peter 3:17-18,
CROSS: Reminding us of the sacrifice of Christ on the Cross to pay for our sins, but also our call to take up our cross and follow Him.Matthew 16:24,
GIFTS: God sent His son and that's the greatest gift of all. Gifts also represent the significant gifts of the Magi. If they don't show our love for our family or friend, then they shouldn't be given.Matthew 2:10-11,
HEART: God LOVED us so much that He sacrificed His Son for us!
John 3:16-18
NATIVITY: Reminding us of the story of Christ’s BirtBible: Luke 2
SHEPHERD'S STAFF: We call it a candy cane. But truly it is a shepherd's staff. The colors symbolize the blood and purity of Christ. Psalm 23,
SNOWFLAKES: Reminding us that Jesus’ blood washes our sins white as snow.Isaiah 1:18, STAR: God proclaimed His truth in creation by lighting up the heavens with a star that announced the birth of Christ the King.Matthew 2:1-12
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